开始明白原来耐性磨损后是脾气暴躁。。。我丧失了我的耐性,我变得暴躁了。。。
Everything starts with Respect and Manner.
When you are not being respect or treat in a manner way, your patience started to be wear out.
Following by that is your temper become irritable.
It is testing my patience and my emotional quotient....
I feel tired with all the burden weight at my shoulder....
If one day, you saw a person riding motorcycle with high speed, and passed your car with a very close distance, which would causes you accident or crash the car, what would you do ??
Set down the window and show him your longest finger? Shake your head and sigh? (what have done) Or etc..
In the meanwhile, you saw a black stuff fly out from his butt and drop at the middle of the road, what would you do?
When u sure that is a wallet, and there are quite a lot of money inside, what would you do?
After u look in trough the wallet, and couldn't find any contact of the owner beside the Identification Card, which mean you have only two options if u wan to return the wallet to the owner - post it back to him, or go to his house and return it, what would you do?
Let talk about what i have heard..
Angle: Return it back to the owner, it is very important to the owner. Even just return the card to him is better than nothing.
Devil: why should we responsibility to the person who did wrong. He is the one who careless, he is the one who might cause you happen accident, why should you still need to spend money to help him neh ?
Angle: .....
Devil: .....
What would you do?
I realized, that sex seem like quite important for some of the people. I mean Sex in the way of "One night Stand" . Someone told me in the trip, Guys must have 4 things in their pocket and 1 stuff in the car or room.
4 mean Cell Phone, Wallet, Lighter, and Cigarettes (Optional). Reason? Cell phone/ Wallet everyones known, lighter is to gentle while a girl wants a light and as a weapon, cigarettes is to act cool by sharing your cigarettes to the hot chicks... If you dont smoke? There is a way.. " I had so many to day, let me have a break." Cool answer ya!! When the chicks ask for cigarettes and u dont have? "Oh, I am sorry, i already finished, do you want some? I go get one." Why we need to act so hard ? as their meaning, is to be cool, in a way of gentlemen. Do i agree? YA, in some way... They do gave a reason, and their main goal to attract girls attention and have great fun SEX!!!
And then the another important stuff is the hotdog cover, condom, play SAFE.
They way of think stuff and moral point is very different compare with what educate me. For them, "I had a great sex with the F^&* hot guy, he is good." , "It's finish, never mind, u can come in, do what u wanna do." For me, is a bit shock. They wont discuss about the process but plays with the inside joke. In the other side, i do really qurious, hahaha.....
It is so complicated when the main goal of traveling for them and my view. They more care of finding a partner to have fun/sex, Relax, or trying run away from the reality, but most of them will end up with fighting or arguing. Even they will have "red light" girl which have a very stable boyfriend for 3 and half year kissing another guy in the trip. Besides that, another joy is when someone wants to have sex and another roommate wants to sleep and it really happen in my trip. what happen next guess yourself.
Anyways, SEX ?? One Night Stand?? Fun ??
Whatever, i don' give a shit about it , Do anything they like..
In this trip, i learned so many things - respect, culture different, the important of language + communication, guts, and so many more.
It is a another sunny day, but i am running out of battery, got to go... But i must say that, today is too sunny, IT IS $#@#@ HOT!!!!!!!!!!! ALMOST BURN ME !!!! Next to Pisa and Florence. I think a couple of day i wont be on9, so talk when i reach Austria... Ciao
Just like the title said i am now trapped in a days off non-chinese language days, NON OF THE PEOPLE BESIDES ME NOW ARE CHINESE!!!
Before i come to UK, one of my uncle tell me something...
It makes me thinks a lot of think About Love.
HE Say.....
"爱情是巧克力。" LOVE is just like a CHOCOLATE
"当你们开心时,是甜的" When both of you are HAPPY, it is so SWEET
"但你们不开心时,是苦的" But both of you are UNHAPPY, it is very bitter
Someone might say that "LOVE IS BLIND".
Yes it is.
Someone may Do a lot of thing to ReVEnGE, to make the another one feel guilty when the relationship had finish.
But think of yourself, does it mean anything to you after that?
A lot of my friends do a very well job in this situation, although they still loving each other.
It is because of family reason they breakup,
It is because meeting the right person but in a wrong timing,
It is because of others reason.....
Still friend After GOODBYE !
To choose honey, or bitter gourd is all on your hand.
Ok, back to the topic "LOVE"
Today is my brother betrothal day,
I am here to congrats them and wish them happy ever..
Congratulation Looooo~~~~~~~~~
p/s : Love you DEAR~~